Farewell 2009...hello 2010

Lessons Learned in 2009

1. Live like there's no tomorrow. Life is too short for regrets and not saying what you mean! R.I.P. Lorena! Love you...
2. Sometimes there are things that are more important than your own happiness. It's called growing up.
3. When they call for hurricanes in the Outer Banks....listen. It's not like them calling for hurricanes at the beach. Put the lawn furniture away and don't leave the towels or bathing suits outside.
4. Halloweein in Orlando is a must at least once in your life. Oh and don't pack so much you come back with way more stuff than you came with.
5. No matter what happens know that you are strong enough to handle what has been given to you.

My soapbox to leave 2009 and welcome 2010....

Every once in a blue moon something amazing happens...we may not expect it, we may not like it, but regardless it just happens. And when it happens you can do one of two things...face it or run away. Of course running away would be the easiest thing to do...why not? Your life would be simpler, your life could go on as you know it, but there's one thing about running....no matter what you run from; it will eventually catch up to you. So, why not face it from the get go. It's easier said than done especially when there are so many factors that need to be considered and when people can get hurt, including you. But sometimes, just sometimes facing the situation is so much easier when it's no longer about you. It might be better to do with with help, but sometimes you can't help that situation. Sometimes, you just need to be unselfish and acept the challenge that has been given to you and see it as a blessing. After all, "He does not allow the tests you face to be greater than the grace he gives you to handle them."

So to 2010 may I and all those that I care about enjoy every moment that we face, no matter how scary or hurtful it may be. May we accept what has been given to us as a blessing and become better people for everything happens for a reason! No matter how things turn out; may we always make the best out of the situation. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger!

My Resolutions...

1. Live my life according to what I know is right and what will give us the best life and not make decisions based on what someone else wants.
2. Kill em with kindness...no need to stoop down to other people's level. It's their choice if they don't treat you well or respect you. As long as you know who you truly are.
3. Just be happy =)